How many times have you met a woman who were really interested in, built a great connection and a few dates left, only to hear him say: “I think of you more as a friend”or worse, simply began to lose interest in you and comes across arrogant studies sweeping their right to their feet. If you”re exhausted by having these experiences, this chapter could be one of the most important things that”never read. For now, I’m sure that this stage has been set as to why women some types of files in the”just friends”during the persecution of the category, and mad baby squirrels after other men. Again, it”s the men who mastered the art of indirect communication, create mystery, demonstrate social proof, and don”t”need”for a woman to their realization, the girl. But how can you be sure that you stand as one of these guys and stay out of the dreaded friend zone?
Here is a simple list that can go in your mind every time I meet a new woman of your choice:
1. Am I being needy?
This will reveal itself more in the way you think and feel while you’re around him than anything else. Are you constantly feeling like you have to gain your attention and could not be good enough for her? Do You analyze every little thing she ‘s saying and trying to find the hidden meaning and if so, “back to show that you are not sure and reducing its social value in the eyes. Remember, put a high price itself and focus on the idea that she needs you more than she needs. Even if it had not interested, that ‘s their loss… not yours.
2. Am I too available?
Are you calling her more than she is calling you? Are you asking her out and try to spend time with her than she is with you? Are you going out of their way to buy things and try to impress her with other things in your personality? If so, review your behavior and pull back slightly. Otherwise, you could keep around just because you’re always available… but ‘ll find a man who shows that he has a life outside it.
3. Am I being too”polite?”
Being too polite basically means that you agree with everything he says in order to avoid their disapproval of you. Women aren”t fragile, it can handle, when a man does not agree with them and has their own opinion. What can not handle is the feeling that a man is too weak to have their own opinions and their own values. These guys could be good friends, because they are easy to get along with, but a woman is looking for a man to be his challenge.
4. Am I being”slug?”
If your only interest in women is to take her to bed, you better believe she knows and feels”icky”about it. Most often, this type of behavior or keep it in the friend zone or write a one-way ticket in his life. It”s better to actually pay attention to her and treat her like a human being that has its own goals and desires instead of putting her on a pedestal as some kind of prize to be won.
5. I’m exaggerating it?
Are you exaggerating when going out on dates by spending much money or trying to put a great show and impress her? If so, you’re basically told that his personality is not interesting or interesting enough and it has to impress her with other things. When you choose the dates, choose the places and activities that let you interact, have fun and meet others. I mean think about it, go to extravagant appointments with anyone… but having a real connection depends on your connection with you as you are.
6. Am I being indecisive?
Indecision is one of the more definite signs of need, insecurity and lack of passion and direction. As you can imagine, these are not things that create attraction with a woman. At best, you could keep around as a friend, because”you’re a good guy. But if you”re unsure, won”t want to spend much time with you because she”always have to be who makes the decisions. But being a determined man and sure gives you the freedom and security to be herself without all the extra pressure, and that”s what women want from a man.